Judd & Moss, P.C.Judd & Moss, P.C.2024-03-13T09:17:46Zhttps://www.juddandmoss.com/feed/atom/WordPressOn Behalf of Judd & Moss, P.C.https://www.juddandmoss.com/?p=480662024-03-08T10:17:59Z2024-03-13T09:17:46ZDividing assets
High-asset divorce typically involves the division of substantial assets such as real estate, investments, business interests and retirement accounts. One of the first steps in a high-asset divorce is to gather all relevant financial documents. This includes tax returns, bank statements and property valuations.
In high-asset divorces, the division of property can be particularly contentious. It is important to accurately value all assets and liabilities to ensure a fair distribution. The New York Courts states that courts go over various factors when dividing marital property. These include the length of the marriage, each spouse's contributions to the acquisition of assets and prenuptial agreements.
Child custody and support
Child custody is another important issue to consider in high-asset divorces. The best interests of the child should be the top priority, and it is important to create a parenting plan that supports the child's emotional and financial well-being. In addition, some parents have significant child support obligations after divorce. If you expect to owe or receive support, look into this issue closely.
By carefully reviewing your finances and prioritizing the well-being of children involved, you can go through a high-asset divorce with confidence and work toward a fair outcome for all parties.]]>On Behalf of Judd & Moss, P.C.https://www.juddandmoss.com/?p=480652024-02-23T05:28:42Z2024-02-28T05:28:30ZContact the police
If you are in immediate danger, call 911. The police play an important role in ensuring your safety. When they respond to a domestic violence incident, they can help assess the situation, document evidence and guide you on the next steps.
Visit Family Court
To obtain an Order of Protection, you will need to go to the Family Court in your county. The court staff can provide you with the necessary forms and assist you in filling them out. Make sure to bring any relevant information about the abusive incidents, such as dates, times and descriptions of exactly what happened. You can also bring evidence such as text messages, emails, photos and videos that support your claims.
Complete the petition
Next, you will complete the petition for an Order of Protection. Be detailed and specific about the incidents of abuse, including any threats made against you. Providing accurate information allowed the judge to understand the severity of the situation so you can get the protection you need.
Appear in court
After you file the petition, the court will schedule a hearing in court that is mandatory for you to attend in person. Be prepared to share your experiences and explain why you need an Order of Protection. The judge will consider your testimony as well as the other person's testimony when deciding whether to issue this type of court order.
Make sure to bring any evidence, witnesses or documents that support your request for an Order of Protection. The judge will evaluate the evidence and make a decision based on the information presented.
In urgent cases, the court may issue a Temporary Order of Protection before the full hearing. This legal document provides immediate relief and ensures your safety until a more thorough examination can take place.
Follow the court order
If the court grants the Order of Protection, law enforcement must officially serve it to the other party. The officer can provide proper service to ensure that the person knows the restrictions in the document.
The National Institutes of Health report that 10 million people experience domestic violence in the U.S. each year. Seeking an Order of Protection is an important step to ensuring your safety. If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, reach out to local resources and law enforcement for support and guidance.]]>On Behalf of Judd & Moss, P.C.https://www.juddandmoss.com/?p=480642024-02-08T06:14:19Z2024-02-13T06:14:06ZDiffering values and priorities
One primary reason for parental disagreements on children's best interests lies in differing values and priorities. Each parent may have distinct beliefs and principles that influence their perception of what constitutes a nurturing and supportive environment for their children. These differences can lead to conflicting ideas about education, discipline and religious upbringing.
Communication breakdowns
Another contributing factor to parental discord is communication breakdowns. During divorce proceedings, emotions often run high. Effective communication becomes challenging. Misunderstandings and misinterpretations can arise, making it difficult for parents to see eye to eye on matters related to their children's welfare.
Financial strain
Financial strain can significantly impact decisions related to children. Disagreements may arise regarding child support, educational expenses or extracurricular activities. In Suffolk County, the median household income is $122,498, and splitting may strain each parent’s resources.
Emotional turmoil
Divorce often brings emotional turmoil. The mental state of parents can influence their decision-making process. Anger, resentment and grief may cloud judgment, making it challenging for divorcing parents to objectively evaluate what truly serves their children's best interests.
Moreover, custody battles can intensify as parents strive to secure a stable and supportive environment for their children, further fueling disputes.
Ambiguities and interpretations
Ambiguities in family law and differing interpretations of statutes can create confusion. It can lead parents to adopt divergent views on custody, visitation and other aspects of their children's lives.
Finding common ground is not always straightforward for parents who have different opinions on their children’s upbringing.]]>On Behalf of Judd & Moss, P.C.https://www.juddandmoss.com/?p=480622024-01-24T05:17:58Z2024-01-29T05:17:19ZProperty valuation
One of the primary functions of real estate appraisers in New York divorces is to determine the fair market value of the properties involved. This process involves a comprehensive evaluation of various factors, including the property's location, condition and comparable sales in the area. Accurate valuation ensures a fair distribution of assets. This aligns with the principle of equitable division.
Objective assessment
Real estate appraisers bring objectivity to the table, presenting an unbiased evaluation of property values. Their impartiality helps prevent disputes between divorcing parties regarding the worth of their real estate holdings. By relying on professional appraisals, the court can make more informed decisions, fostering an equitable resolution of property-related matters.
Specialized knowledge
The nuances of real estate transactions require specialized knowledge. In New York divorces, where property division can be intricate, their insights become invaluable. Whether dealing with unique property features or market fluctuations, appraisers ensure that the court receives accurate and informed assessments.
Expert testimony
Real estate appraisers may provide expert testimony during divorce trials. Their testimony serves to enlighten the court on the finer details of property valuation. These appraisers offer a professional perspective that aids in the decision-making process. They contribute to the court's ability to reach fair resolutions in property-related disputes.
Real estate appraisers in New York can ensure that the division of real estate occurs with precision, objectivity and adherence to legal standards.]]>On Behalf of Judd & Moss, P.C.https://www.juddandmoss.com/?p=480602024-01-12T10:24:45Z2024-01-17T10:24:28ZSeek emotional support
Sharing your feelings with trusted friends and family members can provide a valuable support system. Surround yourself with individuals who offer understanding, empathy and encouragement.
Consider professional counseling
Counseling or therapy offers a structured and supportive environment to process emotions and gain coping strategies. Professional counselors provide guidance as you manage the feelings associated with divorce and adjust to a new reality.
Focus on self-care
You should prioritize your physical and emotional well-being during and after a divorce. Engage in self-care activities such as exercise, adequate sleep and healthy eating habits. These practices contribute to overall health and can positively impact your emotional state.
Start new routines
Divorce often brings significant changes to your daily routine. Creating new routines can provide a sense of stability and control. Establishing a schedule that accommodates personal needs and interests helps in adjusting to life post-divorce.
Set realistic expectations
Recognize that recovering from the emotional impact of divorce will not happen overnight. Set realistic expectations for yourself and acknowledge that healing takes time. Allow yourself the space to grieve the end of the relationship while focusing on personal growth and resilience.
Journal for reflection
Keeping a journal can be a therapeutic way to process your emotions and experiences. Write about your thoughts, feelings and the challenges you are facing.
Do things you love
Participating in activities that bring joy and fulfillment supports your emotional well-being. Explore hobbies, reconnect with interests and engage in positive experiences that contribute to a sense of purpose and happiness.
Establish clear boundaries
Setting clear boundaries with your ex-partner and maintaining effective communication can minimize stress. This step gives you emotional space and reduces potential conflicts, contributing to a smoother recovery.
According to research cited by Psychology Today, divorce can contribute to a higher risk of substance use, depression and other mental health concerns. Dealing with your emotions effectively can set the stage for long-term happiness after this difficult transition.]]>On Behalf of Judd & Moss, P.C.https://www.juddandmoss.com/?p=480582024-01-10T05:16:32Z2024-01-15T05:16:04ZPain for grandparents
Grandparents, the venerable pillars of a multigenerational home, often find themselves caught in the emotional crossfire. Witnessing the dissolution of their child's marriage can be emotionally taxing. They may grapple with feelings of disappointment, sadness and a sense of helplessness as they try to support not only their child but also their grandchildren.
Disrupted parent-child dynamics
For the parents going through a divorce, the strain is palpable. Beyond their individual struggles, the dynamics of their relationship with their children inevitably shift. Children may find themselves torn between loyalty to both parents, navigating new, uncharted territory. Communication breakdowns and changes in parenting styles can become sources of tension.
Other challenges for children
Children, being the vulnerable heart of the family, are profoundly affected by divorce. The upheaval in their lives can manifest in various ways, from academic challenges to changes in behavior. They may grapple with feelings of insecurity and fear of abandonment, requiring additional emotional support and understanding.
Financial strain
Many of the almost 60 million people in the U.S. who live in a multigenerational household find financial benefits in sharing a home. However, these benefits are often disrupted by divorce. The pooled resources that once helped everyone may become strained, causing difficult decisions about how to budget and allocate resources.
With so many people affected, a multigenerational household experiencing divorce must adapt to the "new normal" through open communication and a commitment to mutual support.]]>On Behalf of Judd & Moss, P.C.https://www.juddandmoss.com/?p=480562023-12-19T07:24:29Z2023-12-22T07:24:01ZEstablishing legal parentage
In some cases, unmarried parents must establish legal parentage before seeking custody. Generally, mothers automatically have custody of their children after giving birth. However, legal parentage can be more complicated for fathers.
Establishing paternity is necessary before a father can take on custodial rights and responsibilities. Parents can establish paternity by signing a voluntary Acknowledgment of Paternity form at the hospital or filing a Family Court petition. This step gives both parents the right to seek custody or visitation.
Starting the custody process
New York recognizes two types of custody: physical and legal. Legal custody involves important decisions about the child's upbringing. Physical custody determines where the child lives. Parents can retain legal custody even if they are not the primary physical custodian. This allows parents to maintain ties with their children.
Unmarried parents must file in Family Court to establish custody. This process begins with filling out forms, which include petitions for custody and summons. These documents ask for details about the child's current living situation, the parent's relationship with the child and the proposed custody arrangement.
Finalizing custody arrangements
The custody arrangement becomes legally binding once the parents agree or the court decides. Parents must adhere to the terms outlined in the custody order. If circumstances change, either parent can request a custody order modification. However, they must prove that the change is in the child's best interest.
By focusing on their children's needs and well-being, unmarried parents can navigate this process to provide nurturing environments for their families.]]>On Behalf of Judd & Moss, P.C.https://www.juddandmoss.com/?p=480532023-12-08T05:29:55Z2023-12-13T05:29:25ZCreate a safe haven
Start by securing your immediate environment. Change the locks, install security systems and fortify windows and doors. Your home should be a sanctuary where you feel secure and protected from potential harm.
Reach out to trusted individuals
Building a support system is essential. Connect with reliable friends, family members or colleagues. Share your situation with them, and let them know how they can support you. Having a network of trusted people who understand your circumstances is invaluable.
Record abusive behavior
Make note of incidents of domestic violence, noting dates, times and specific details. Keep a journal or use technology to store this information securely. This documentation can be valuable if you decide to pursue legal action.
Seek legal protection
Consider obtaining a restraining order, also known as an order of protection. This legal document prohibits the abuser from contacting or approaching you. Be aware of the conditions outlined in the order and promptly report any violations to law enforcement.
Prepare a safety plan
Identify safe places to go, memorize emergency contacts and have a bag with essential items ready in case you need to leave quickly. A well-thought-out safety plan enhances your ability to respond effectively in moments of crisis.
Use support services
Engage with local advocacy groups that specialize in domestic violence. These organizations can provide resources, counseling and guidance in the aftermath of abuse. Seek assistance to regain control of your life.
Therapy and counseling can help you address the emotional toll of the experience. Surround yourself with positive influences who contribute to your healing journey.
The number of domestic abuse incidents increased by nearly 9% from 2019 to 2021 in New York. By taking practical steps and accessing available resources, you can move forward and build a life free of abuse.]]>On Behalf of Judd & Moss, P.C.https://www.juddandmoss.com/?p=480512023-12-07T04:06:07Z2023-12-13T04:05:23Z1. Guard your privacy
Review and adjust your privacy settings on your platforms to control who has access to your posts and information. Limiting the audience can prevent unnecessary complications.
2. Exercise restraint in sharing details
Resist the urge to share every detail of your divorce on social media. Avoid airing grievances, discussing legal matters or using platforms to vent frustrations. Keep in mind that once information is online, it can be challenging to retract, potentially affecting your personal and legal standing.
3. Think before you post
"Friends and family" is a major reason users of all ages cite for being on social media. However, before hitting the "post" button, consider the potential implications of your message. Reflect on how your ex-spouse, mutual friends or, if applicable, your children, might interpret your words or images. Thoughtful communication on social media can prevent misunderstandings and unnecessary conflicts.
4. Refrain from constant monitoring
Resist the temptation to monitor your ex-spouse's social media activities obsessively. Constantly checking their profiles can lead to heightened stress and anxiety. Instead, focus on your own well-being and seek support from friends, family or professionals.
5. Consider a social media break
Taking a break from social media can provide much-needed relief during a divorce. Temporarily stepping away can shield you from unnecessary emotional triggers and allow you to focus on personal healing and self-care.
By approaching your online presence with mindfulness and consideration, you can contribute to a smoother divorce process and prioritize your well-being.]]>On Behalf of Judd & Moss, P.C.https://www.juddandmoss.com/?p=480482023-11-15T06:23:38Z2023-11-20T06:23:05ZCognitive development and academic success
Active fathers contribute to their children's cognitive development and academic success. HealthDay reports that children whose fathers interact with them regularly at age 3 perform better in school by age 5.
Emotional well-being and social competence
Fathers who actively participate in their children's lives provide emotional support. This helps them navigate challenges with resilience.
Increased self-esteem and confidence
Children with active fathers often experience a boost in self-esteem and confidence. Positive interactions and encouragement from fathers contribute to a strong sense of self-worth. This helps empower children to tackle challenges. It also helps them explore their potential.
Reduced risk of behavioral issues
The active involvement of fathers leads to a decreased likelihood of children developing behavioral issues. Fathers who participate in their children's lives and provide consistent discipline create a more stable and nurturing environment. This structure helps children develop a sense of responsibility and resilience. It also reduces the risk of problematic behaviors.
Improved communication skills
Active fathers help foster effective communication skills in their children. Fathers model healthy communication patterns through regular and meaningful interactions, teaching children how to express themselves and understand others.
Recognizing and celebrating the importance of fathers helps build stronger families and communities. It also highlights the important role fathers play in shaping the futures of their children.]]>