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The impact of divorce on a multigenerational household

On Behalf of | Jan 15, 2024 | Divorce |

Divorce is a significant life event that can send ripples through the very fabric of a family. When divorce strikes a multigenerational household, where grandparents, parents and children coexist, its impact is particularly intricate.

Learning about how this complex situation impacts everyone in the home can help you cope.

Pain for grandparents

Grandparents, the venerable pillars of a multigenerational home, often find themselves caught in the emotional crossfire. Witnessing the dissolution of their child’s marriage can be emotionally taxing. They may grapple with feelings of disappointment, sadness and a sense of helplessness as they try to support not only their child but also their grandchildren.

Disrupted parent-child dynamics

For the parents going through a divorce, the strain is palpable. Beyond their individual struggles, the dynamics of their relationship with their children inevitably shift. Children may find themselves torn between loyalty to both parents, navigating new, uncharted territory. Communication breakdowns and changes in parenting styles can become sources of tension.

Other challenges for children

Children, being the vulnerable heart of the family, are profoundly affected by divorce. The upheaval in their lives can manifest in various ways, from academic challenges to changes in behavior. They may grapple with feelings of insecurity and fear of abandonment, requiring additional emotional support and understanding.

Financial strain

Many of the almost 60 million people in the U.S. who live in a multigenerational household find financial benefits in sharing a home. However, these benefits are often disrupted by divorce. The pooled resources that once helped everyone may become strained, causing difficult decisions about how to budget and allocate resources.

With so many people affected, a multigenerational household experiencing divorce must adapt to the “new normal” through open communication and a commitment to mutual support.