You believe that your marriage is irretrievably broken and the only option is divorce. However, your spouse disagrees and refuses to sign the divorce papers. Does that mean you’re stuck in an unhappy marriage? Moving forward without mutual consent New York State...
Year: 2025
4 child custody threats that won’t hold up in court
Divorce is hard, but add child custody issues to the mix and emotions can ramp up. It’s not uncommon for one parent to make threats about child custody to gain control or provoke fear in their co-parent. However, most cannot hold up in court. If your co-parent throws...
What happens after a domestic violence arrest
A domestic violence arrest can be one of the most terrifying moments in a survivor’s life. Emotions run high, the future feels uncertain, and the road ahead may seem overwhelming. When the police arrive and someone is taken into custody, it’s not just an isolated...
Managing debt as a co-parent
Managing debt as a co-parent can be challenging, especially when financial responsibilities are tied to both individual and shared expenses. Whether you’re recently divorced, separated or never married, if debt is part of your co-parenting equation, it’s important to...
Being thoughtful when your co-parent is annoying
If your co-parent often frustrates or annoys you, it can be tempting to react in the moment. But for the sake of your children (and your sanity!), thoughtful communication and emotional control can make a big difference in your parenting journey. Annoying behavior...
Why would a temporary order be used in a divorce?
When a divorce is finalized, the court will pass down certain orders that the parents have to follow. There will be a child custody order, for example. There may be a child support order or even a spousal support order. But in some cases, temporary orders can be used....
Tips for making transition days less stressful
Children who are in the middle of their parents’ divorce are suddenly thrown into a life where they have to learn how to live in two homes instead of the one they’ve always know. This can be a challenging time for them, partly because they have to become accustomed to...
Your social media use during divorce: Things to consider
Divorce can change many aspects of a person’s life, including what they do online. Some people don’t realize that they may have to change how they interact on social media. Understanding the reasons why it’s important to do so may help people who are contemplating...
Can your co-parent make child healthcare decisions without you?
When you're sharing custody, it's normal to wonder how much decision-making power your co-parent has, especially when it comes to your child’s health. In New York, the answer depends on your custody arrangement. Below are some key points to remember. Legal custody...
What happens when an abuser violates a protective order?
Domestic violence affects many homes, creating environments of fear and uncertainty. Victims often face physical, emotional, and psychological harm, and finding safety becomes a crucial priority. In New York, protective orders serve as vital tools to help safeguard...

